Why Don’t I Get Married

Yesterday, a friend asked everyone a theoretical question: “What if your husband introduced you to his mistress/ other woman? What will you do?”

Without batting an eyelash I answered: If my husband does that I will kick him in the groin and spit on the woman’s face and walk away. Pack away my husbands clothes and give it to his other woman and tell her my husband is yours.”

For those who believe in keeping the sanctity of marriage intact, such behavior is unacceptable because they would rather have a civilized conversation with the husband and the other woman and tell us to go counseling first and patch things up and save the marriage. But for me, the fact that the husband fearlessly introduced me to his mistress is a clear sign that he doesn’t respect or love me anymore, because if he does he will try to keep his affairs secret and will not even dare to have me near her.

I wouldn’t stay in a marriage like that and I won’t dare compete with any other woman because I deserve the best treatment a man should give his woman and not just a fall back.

I think I can’t handle a married life because I am very impulsive and will walk away as soon as I see signs of philandering and disrespect to me by my husband. A womanizing husband I think is the best yet worst appetite suppressants in the world as anyone experiencing the problem could either lose or gain weight fast because of all the heartaches this can cause.

So tell me why would I get married when I am happily living my single mom blessedness?