Healthy Single Mommy

If It’s Time

admin — Sat, 12 May 2012 08:49:32 +0000

If it’s time to die, I am ready. But I only have one wish. I either die same time as my daughter or she die first before me. I know that sounds rash but well my daughter is different. She has autism and nobody else can take care of her and understand her the way I do and it will pain me to see her suffer without me or God know what will happen to her if I am not there with her anymore. So I rather her die with me same time or she die first before me.

Call Me A Feminist

admin — Thu, 03 May 2012 06:06:01 +0000

Being a woman we are all trapped by certain standards, actually a double standard that the men who ruled the world once inflicted upon us. This will take decades to break or even centuries to break.

It is funny that some men would want to become a woman because they want the curves, the clothes and the colors we women can pull off. Just like this Jenna Talakova who made waves because she was trying so hard to fight for his-her right to join Ms. Universe that is meant for naturally born women and not for those who were scientifically altered.

I am for this statement made by Suzi Parker on her article at Washington Post:

“The real victory would be if no women desired pageant queen status. Now, transgender women will have to be like the rest of us – living up to a beauty ideal decided by a panel of judges.

It would be refreshing if she told the world that being a woman isn’t just about curves in the right places, glossy lipstick and perfectly coiffed hair. Womanhood – and the discrimination that comes with God-given assets or medically created ones – is so much more than sparkly pageant gowns.”

Nobody could ever said it better that way. Read more about her article here

I Need A Hero Not A Zero

admin — Thu, 03 May 2012 05:46:07 +0000

This will be the last time I rant about my boyfriend problems because 1) I am breaking up with him for good and 2) I am only embarrassing myself talking about my no-good boyfriend, oopsies sorry ex-boyfriend.

Yes, I need a hero not a zero boyfriend. Someone who makes me feel secured and will go the extra mile just to make me feel the love he profess. I want someone to hold me and love me and take care of me beyond words. Someone who can walk the talk and not just talk and talk.

To my zero ex, your pattern gives you away. You will always be what you are a zero and I am now over you for good. I deserve better. Shopping for equestrian clothing is way much better than staying with you.

My Strength And Weaknesses

admin — Thu, 03 May 2012 04:20:34 +0000

I excel in everything I do as long as I put my heart to it. I can do so many things and people respond to whatever I say. I am an effective communicator I believe. That is my strength.

I think I have the ability to be over critical about myself and I hold grudges. It is hard for me to trust someone who has betrayed me and I always make my pass the basis for my future dealings. That is my weakness.

My strength and weaknesses are both a blessings and a curse. But well nobody is perfect and so I am glad about who I am and what I can and could not do.

How about you, what are your strength and weaknesses?

Trust Issues

admin — Mon, 30 Apr 2012 15:37:45 +0000

I hate the fact that I love him but I don’t trust him. I am so insecure with this relationship. We have nowhere to go to. I want to get married this year but our circumstances don’t allow us to. Shall I wait for another 7 years again. Damn I don’t want to wait that long. I hate it. I hate whatever we have now. I always suspect his cheating behind my back. Chats people using web video conferencing in his other accounts when he signs of the account we use to talk. Damn caught him on Facebook chat early in the morning. I wish I can guess his password again so I’ll know and I can let him go.

Ghost of the Past

admin — Mon, 30 Apr 2012 15:34:45 +0000

I always got this birthday jitters. I don’t know but this is always the time of the year when he strays. He is like a bunny who is out on a spring time and ready for mating season. Yesterday, he waited for 12mindnight his time to go offline. He always go offline now when he used to stay on for me even when he sleeps. He woke early this morning when he told me earlier he got no work today. Then I saw him on Facebook chatting somebody I don’t know. Grrr. This is the ghost of the past that he created. I find it hard to trust and believe him. He is such a liar. If so why did I stay. Stoopid me.

I Won’t Be Here

admin — Sun, 29 Apr 2012 14:18:12 +0000

I won’t be here when you need me because you are not here when I do. Or not even when I do but just because. I am tired of being used and abused emotionally and physically. I feel worthless when I realize you just remember me when you want something from me. I am glad I am one of those who comes to mind when you need something but well its not a feel good thing to realize. Is this some kinda sick joke or am I in your liga privada group of friends that you pull out of your hat when there is nobody else? Yes, friend I don’t feel good with this thing you are doing with me. So I won’t be here for you no more.

China Product Ban

admin — Thu, 26 Apr 2012 03:25:22 +0000

Yeah we should ban their product and be very strict with having them come here in the Philippines. They act as if they own the country just because we tolerate them and just because they own businesses here. The Chinese government patrolling around Scarborough Shore is just a proof that they think they can bully us. What if we bully them. We all know Chinese products are low quality product anyway.

Squatters

admin — Thu, 26 Apr 2012 03:20:21 +0000

I don’t know about this squatters/ informal settlers. They should go back where they come from and not act as if its their right or they own the plays they illegally put their “homes” if you call that a home. They should be jailed for trespassing and for defying an authority.

If this happens in another country I don;t think they can defy the authorities especially those who wearwestern belts.

City mayors should not tolerate such people but well they use them for their political ambitions so they can win an election. Poor policemen who are just doing their jobs. Sila pa ang masama.

My Trademark

admin — Tue, 24 Apr 2012 09:40:52 +0000

Because of my tiny feet, its so hard to find the shoe I want because most don’t have my size or if they do my size run out really fast. That’s why I posted on my Facebook that if ever they have new shoes out and they have my size they should update me right away because I really really want to get new one.

From now on, Flats will be my trade mark :p Will wear heels or wedges from time to time but I am more comfortable with flats gets me moving comfortably and well there are pretty nice flats out there that also makes a statement.